one single mother. one spririted preschooler. oy — what a life.
Tonight I went out to dinner and a movie with the sweetest, cutest guy. I’m still smiling about it.
He didn’t pay for anything, but I forgave him that, since he was such completely charming company. We split a lovely Middle Eastern dinner. He spilled a lot of his rice down the front of his shirt, and didn’t always use utensils when he ate, but I was willing to overlook it, since he was just so cute and fun. When he crawled under the table, I got a little embarrassed, but I just took a deep breath and smiled. After all, I was so happy to be out with this special guy.
After dinner, we made it to the 6:55 pm screening of Bolt, the latest Disney flick about a lovable dog and his sidekicks: an alley cat and a hamster who rolls around in a plastic orb. Not what I would have ordinarily picked, but he insisted, so I was willing to give it a try. In the theater, he spilled half of his popcorn, and then started to eat the spilled contents off the floor. That stressed me out some, but I finally convinced him to sit in his seat and watch the movie. We then held hands and snuggled throughout the film.
After the movie was over, my “date” pitched a fit by the elevator because he didn’t want to go home. That’s right ladies, he didn’t want the date to end. He then fell asleep in the car on the way home, and I carried him upstairs and tucked him into bed.
Tonight, there was no one else I would have rather been out with. My almost-three year old is truly the most wonderful guy in my life. I’m the most blessed mother in the world to have such fabulous spawn.
Beth
December 6th, 2008 at 3:33 am
You made my day with this post. Due to being a single mother, this holiday season I am mid-holiday, mid-family, mid-custody, and mid-religions… but, like you, lucky to have the most wonderful offspring in the entire universe.
Laura
December 6th, 2008 at 7:00 am
Oh man that sounds like the perfect date
Ashley
December 6th, 2008 at 11:42 am
What a wonderful little dharma post to wake up to! I’m grinning from ear to ear, reveling in the joy you conveyed. Ah, to have a few of these moments in one hectic week can turn the tide and remind us why it’s all worth it!
single mom seeking
December 6th, 2008 at 3:39 pm
I LOVE this post! Tears in my eyes. I’m having quite the morning and this completely caught me off guard — in the best way. Ah, simply love it.
P.S. Finally just added you to my Blogroll. Woo-hoo!
Stacy (mama-om)
December 6th, 2008 at 9:19 pm
You got me! I was all, “She went on a date! With a great guy! Hm… she wants the guy to pay? He spilled rice all over?”
And then I just knew, because I know a couple of guys just like that!
Wonderful post…
T
December 7th, 2008 at 3:19 pm
I love love LOVE this post. Made me cry too…
Celebrate the love you already have in your life. It will only bring more.
Mama Dharma
December 8th, 2008 at 5:16 pm
Hooray!
Thank you so much everyone. I am so glad this post made you smile.
and SMS - thank you SO much for adding me to your blogroll.
Here’s to celebrating the sweetness of our kiddos!
Mama Dharma
December 8th, 2008 at 5:18 pm
p.s. I meant to say, so glad this post made you smile AND cry
that is high praise…
dadshouse
December 8th, 2008 at 10:27 pm
Why is everyone crying? I thought this was hilarious. Funny how people react differently to posts. I was actually guessing your date was a dog
It’s funnier that it was your son.
Great writing.