I mean, sure Sami’s dad is behaving like an ass. No doubt.

But all the seething anger, that seems to me to be something that can only come from the person being angry.

And I think in many cases, its misdirected. Its all the anger you never righteously felt at other times, all the hurts and invisible wounds you still bear - this is what drives our fury.

Then, when a worthy recipient comes along, we unleash it at them, telling ourselves its that person that makes us so angry.

But I wonder if it ever is? I don’t think we can resolve anger by venting or not venting. And the number of times I’ve written all about it, danced, run, even hit a punching bag… none of these things kill the anger.

I’m coming round to the idea that its our own internal healing, that’s what puts everything back in place. Eventually…

And I’m sorry Sami’s dad is such an ass!